Playtimes can be tricky for children with autism....
- It's unstructured time - which some like (no demands) and others hate (don't know what to do or how to fill the time).
- It's a sensory overload – which some love because they are sensory seekers and need the movement and sensory stimulation and others hate because the sights, sounds, smells, noise, weather, movement, touch and space of a playground hurts them.
- It's socially demanding – which most don't like because there's a lot to take in, children are moving and talking and shouting and playing and coming at them from all directions.They might not know where to start to even ask to play, and possibly no-one asks them to play.
- The rules keep changing – so when they thought they were playing one game, someone changes it to another, just like that, and they can't keep up and are left behind – or get angry because you changed the rules and that is stressful beyond words.
- There's no place to escape – some will wander, trying to find their own bit of space where they can just be on their own for a bit. Others will invent their own worlds to escape to so the noise and mess around them can be shut out.
- It's scary and it's easy to feel angry - Children are running, screaming and pushing. How do they know when to stop? Imagine a child with autism who is frightened, because they don't know how to stop themselves or join in without getting it wrong. Hitting out at others is just getting them out of the way…or attempting to join in when you can't communicate so well.
- It's exhausting – even though a child with autism may look like they're doing ok and joining in, the effort is exhausting. You notice it when they come back into class, especially in the afternoon. Or maybe it's their parents who find out when they go home and it all comes out. They've used up all their spoons.